Why I got engaged at 19
Haley Pham
wow girlypops. Was not expecting to post this video but...here is why I got engaged at 19!!! I'm a fiancée now!
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  • Sk8 Hard
    Sk8 Hard

    wow you said you have a weird that name? clearly you have never heard mine😂

  • Punchy Potato
    Punchy Potato

    holy cow i’m 16 and i can’t even imagine getting married in 3 years from now

  • Klaudia Sawicki
    Klaudia Sawicki

    wait so you're telling me this whole time your last name WAS NOT PHAM

  • skittles avakin
    skittles avakin

    Yall just be happy for the girl. Its her life not yours. Let her live. She is happy that's all that matters. They both are clearly meant to be anyways.

  • Kennedi Paul
    Kennedi Paul

    How confident you are in this marriage is AMAZING

  • Kennedi Paul
    Kennedi Paul

    IM SOOOOO HAPPY FOR YALL 🥺🥺🥺😁💗💗💗💗💗💗💗

  • Laila Rocha
    Laila Rocha

    i am also engaged at 19

  • Lara

    U wanna fuck dont ya 😋 hahahshh i love them

  • 6lack Tyler
    6lack Tyler

    Me being called a girl even though I’m a guy

  • Katie Lynn
    Katie Lynn

    Use this like button as “CONGRATULATIONS WE ARE SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!”

  • Officialmeme

    Ive decided to start a youtube channel. Please come show love! i will be uploading my first youtube video soon ! Let me know what you guys think!

  • Listo Love
    Listo Love

    A lot of Christians take marriage very seriously because marriage is supposed to be the image of God and the church

  • maddy karnes
    maddy karnes

    im so happy that your happy!! I have been waiting. AHHHHH

  • DansLifetour

    i immediately cringed after i clicked on this video. no offence but girly pops is a weird name

  • Lexi H
    Lexi H

    I thought you looked so much cuter the day he proposed 😂

  • Sinead_Dat_Owl13

    Ive been with my boyfriend for shy of 3 years now, were very much settled and prepared to move on in our relationship and ik he wants to propose but as im nearly 19 (hes 20 tomorrow) the parents think were too young. I dont understand why your too young for marriage? When YOU know you know, and its not like either of us have any desire to go out drinking/hooking up etc. Were settled with eachother 💕 wish me luck

  • Yessica Marie
    Yessica Marie

    My fiancé and I are both 21 and super young! we're getting married next october and honestly there's no timeline to how you do things and when you do them! i always knew I've wanted to be married young and have a family young. my life is NOT over because my fiancé and I have amazing support and we love to party together, even when we have kids we'll party with our kids haha. I always dreamed of being a wife and mother (didnt go as far as pinning til i got engaged last year lol) but in all, this is a beautiful life experience you get to spend with your person. as long as you're happy, and you have an amazing support system, that's all that matters. congrats hun ♥️

  • Random Commenter
    Random Commenter

    I'm just happy for you.

  • Deadshot Beast
    Deadshot Beast

    Can I go to you wedding lol

  • Karl Tor-L
    Karl Tor-L

    8 years later you'll be jumping on another

    • Karl Tor-L
      Karl Tor-L

      @soinu foig hahahahahaha I will never get marry so sl$$$ like you can't rob me and getaway with. I told my gf she can leave anytime she wants if marryge that she wants, so far it's being 6 years

    • soinu foig
      soinu foig

      Yeah it’s so intentional because you both can’t have sex till marriage 🥴

  • cookie et broownie
    cookie et broownie

    Don't let rose solano shoot him!

  • Frederique Raats
    Frederique Raats

    My mom got married at 18 so I don’t think you’re super young

  • Miranda Nacarelli
    Miranda Nacarelli

    congrats girl! i got engaged at 18 right before i turned 19! Got married at 19 and now i’m 20 and have been married for a year! Everyone said how young we were but we didn’t care & are happily married!!💕

  • Blindless

    Ryan: yo can I marry your daughter Haley’s dad: *pauses* Ryan: sh*t sh*t sh*t sh*t

  • purple potato
    purple potato

    I hope you both get married and live happily 💕💕💕. So happy for you

  • Chloe

    girl good for you. my mom got engaged at 19 and married at 20. both my parents have been married for 20 years now🥰

  • Lottie

    mad to me how not going to college is seen as unconventional in america- here in the UK its super normal to not go to Uni

  • Blindless

    Haley: Engaged at 19 Me: hold up, wait a minute, something ain’t right

    • J

      Blindless k

  • Alex Albright
    Alex Albright

    Hey! Just want to say, don’t want to sound mean or rude bc it’s your life and It doesn’t effect me at all! I just don’t understand the want to get married at 19, Me and my boyfriend, dated to marry, I mean he told me a month in he’s planning on marrying me and he’s will. Maybe it’s just our life paths, I want to finish my BS and MS degrees, start a career and live with him for a few years so I’m positive we will have a long, happy life together. It’s just interesting to also see the cultural aspect. My boyfriend immigrated to the US at 7, his parents, have been married as long as mine (23 years) and you can see how much they love each other, and they dated for 10 years. My parents, dated for 6 months, got pregnant with my brother and got married 23 years ago. Mom was 19& my dad was 20. Obviously it’s a different time and different situation, But I just find it interesting to see why and how people get into life long commitments like this!

  • ceces mocha
    ceces mocha

    UR SO CUTE TOGETHER! *also your ring is beautiful* 💞

  • Mia Hughes
    Mia Hughes

    It’s been two years since husband cheated. he has done everything he can to fix his mistake. I just can’t get over the fact some other girl was having sex with him while he was married to me. Two years and I still can’t stomach it. @redhackpro on instagram he was able to hack into my husband mobile phone, You can also send him a whatsapp messages +1 937-815-1491. he has changed. he has learned his lesson. What good is that now? All I see is a nasty slut who had a nasty girl on him with his penis in her.

  • Fleur van Rossum
    Fleur van Rossum

    Who's been here since the Kylie Jenner lipkits review?

  • iammilan


  • Bluuz Cluuz
    Bluuz Cluuz

    i have been watching ryan and you for a 2 years and i honestly am so happy for you and ryan i legit cried tears of joy watching the video when he was proposing. ❤️❤️

  • Bae J
    Bae J

    shook, but like in a good way

  • Tanya Korschefsky
    Tanya Korschefsky

    Yeah it’s so intentional because you both can’t have sex till marriage 🥴

  • Ivanna Archila
    Ivanna Archila

    “Divorce is not an option “ 👏🏽

  • Charli

    Girl cant drink legally and still has a better love relationship with a boy than me like come on. But for real she has the right to be married and she has a love for Ryan that she wants to share on a high level so she can have a better connection with her fiance but at least she is being polite to the people who disagree with her choices and not starting drama thank you for being you

  • Ate Rules
    Ate Rules

    You do you! It shouldn't matter to other people

  • Cristina Ortiz
    Cristina Ortiz


  • Jaxon Cunningham
    Jaxon Cunningham

    So happy for y’all!!!🤩🥳🥳🤩😁👍🏻

  • Sydney Iannucci
    Sydney Iannucci

    I can’t believe I’ve been watching Haley for like over 5 years since her braces and long hair and dance days in her room with her cute bunk bed :) congrats Haley and Ryan!!!! ❤️

  • Eileen Feliciano
    Eileen Feliciano


  • Maranda Ward
    Maranda Ward

    I got engaged at 19, married right after I turned 21, and we’ve been happily married for almost two years now! I fell in love at 17 and I have no regrets. Yes, marriage is hard work. It is not always rainbows and sunshine. But as long as you remember that love isn’t just a feeling but an active choice that you make every single day. I wish you guys worlds of happiness, congratulations!

  • Kerrah

    Yessss a Christian youtuberrrr

  • leah x
    leah x

    this is so refreshing, i’m happy for you

  • Ask to seduce Miss
    Ask to seduce Miss

    YESSSSSS WHEN SHE SAID “ we’re waiting till marriage” !!!!!!!!!!!!

  • hellomyly

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  • Andrea West
    Andrea West

    People had gotten married at 14,15,16 for many years it doesn’t matter to me if you really want to spend the rest of your life with that person go ahead it’s your life ❤️

  • Rylie Johnston
    Rylie Johnston

    Her little doggo just watching out the window 💞

    • Ask to seduce Miss
      Ask to seduce Miss

      My mom got married at nineteen. Didn’t go to college. But she is a very successful woman. But the funny thing is that the man she married was her band teacher.

  • Izzy Drummond
    Izzy Drummond

    Im so happy for you and being 19 is irrelevant, congrats xox

  • Megan

    Its your life. Live it. Don’t explain your life to anyone. You seem so happy and I hope it stays this way. You deserve it. X

  • Sammi Nicole
    Sammi Nicole

    congrats you two!! you speak so well too!

  • Uber Original
    Uber Original

    My best friend got married a month after she turned 19. Next year she's celebrating her 10th anniversary and her daughter's second birthday. She's told me she doesn't have a single regret about getting married young. If it's right for you, it's right for you.

  • Moon c;
    Moon c;

    This makes me so happy. I've watched both of you for so long, i'm giving you the best wishes possible!

  • Selorna Ackuayi
    Selorna Ackuayi

    Congrats Haley! Getting married young is awesome because then you can be in your grandchildren and great grandchildren’s lives

  • JSD

    Waaaaay too young

  • Skylar Butler
    Skylar Butler

    Congratulations Haley & Ryan!! 🎉🎊

  • C K
    C K

    I mean, getting married young isn’t crazy but what’s the rush? We’ll see how she feels in a few years.

  • Jeri Abbott
    Jeri Abbott

    i don't think she should've mention that ppl in utah get married young...

  • icecold


  • Judith Lynn
    Judith Lynn

    It’s really sad how Haley has to tell everyone why she’s getting married at such a young age, it’s their decision and she shouldnt have to justify herself. Even though someone Gets married, doesn’t mean they’re going to have kids right away, etc. Most People get married because they love each other, and like her I’m sure she’s going to enjoy life to the fullest with her soon to be husband ❤️ before having children even though they got married, I personally don’t see anything wrong with early marriage 🥰

  • AntsyAna

    Omg I can relate on so many levels. I got engaged when I was 19 too and now I am 22. I've never regreted even though I always thought 19 is too young. You actually never know how it happens. I am scared of children too 😃 so not planning any yet 😃

  • jimin’s filter
    jimin’s filter

    let people settle if they want to settle. let them never date/get married if that's what they want. let people live however they want as long as they aren't hurting anyone it's not rocket science. the fact that someody has to explain why they want to settle and mmarry the person they love is crazy to me. wishing u a lot of happiness and lots of love

  • SlayinDaGame 425
    SlayinDaGame 425

    My mom got married at nineteen. Didn’t go to college. But she is a very successful woman. But the funny thing is that the man she married was her band teacher.

  • SlayinDaGame 425
    SlayinDaGame 425

    I’ve been here since your dancing videos

  • Kat Silva
    Kat Silva

    I’ve been watching you for so long, absolutely admiring and looking up to you. Then, you and Ryan met and happened and you introduced us to him and I was so excited for the journey between you two. So, to see the house being bought together and NOW being engaged, it makes me so freaking happy 🥺☺️💖. I love you, both, so so so much.

  • Kailee Palardy
    Kailee Palardy

    im so happy for you!!!!!

  • Sabrina Lopez
    Sabrina Lopez

    Maybe people are hating but congrats!!! Like this is insane and everyone is so friking proud of you and are happy your happy!!!! *CONGRATS!!!!*

  • Nora Piper
    Nora Piper

    Congratulations girl! So happy for you two!

  • Lindsey Vanderbuilt
    Lindsey Vanderbuilt

    Aww this is so cute. My heart is SO HAPPY RIGHT NOW

  • Kelly Valiant
    Kelly Valiant

    Congratulations! I got engaged at 18 and married at 19, my one year anniversary is next week. It works if you’re ready for it!! Happy for you both

  • Taylor Poullard
    Taylor Poullard

    I got married at 20. And I’m about to be 22, do what you feel you should do. If in the end it doesn’t work that doesn’t matter because it’s working out now 🥰🥰

  • Nikki Sandquist
    Nikki Sandquist

    Yo I’m 17 and getting married when I’m 18

  • Gabbygetsrandom !
    Gabbygetsrandom !

    I really relate with this getting married at 19 and as a Christian this is normal for my family in my life I experienced so much in such a short time that I've had to overcome. People have been telling me I'm too young and havent lived enough life to even be engaged and it's really discouraging to have people tell you when they think the right time is for you, especially when me and my fiance are so sure, share so much life and the same values.

  • Fire Power
    Fire Power

    Am I the only person that is offended that she said Girly pops when most of the people here would probably be watching this because they want more context of Ryans video EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

    • J

      Fire Power you’re offended😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂dying omg grow some skin

  • Ashllxnn

    Congratulations! I got engaged at 19 too! To me whenever you’re ready you’re ready, and everyone is ready at different times. I’m so happy for you! 😍

  • Dalena Danh
    Dalena Danh

    I know you didn’t mean it that way but Christians arent the only ones that date for the intention to marry

  • Joyy Ganut
    Joyy Ganut

    My mom got married at 19 and having her as my mom, everything is just normal.

  • Lillian Rose
    Lillian Rose

    Well my mum got married at 17 with my dad even though they’d only been together for 2 years, now they’ve been married for 25 years with 2 kids, me 15 and my sister 21 so go you sis xx